Why do humans have the drive to want to be togther? I know we are social creatures but what makes us want to seek out a companion or compaionship? Is it fear of being alone? Is it the fact that deep down inside a person wants to be loved and excepted for who they are? Is it the fact that most people truely need physical contact. I'm not just talking about sex. I mean hugs, hand shakes, or just plain being held.
There is a certain comfort gleened from the embrace of another.
I don't want some genaric answer like that's how God/Goddess made us. I want it explained. Some people go to such great lengths to feel human touch, even as far as paying for it. Or searching for people to have sex with so that the can find a brief moment of compaionship. I know we are wired to want to have sex to ensure the survival of the species. What I'm talking about though is something beyond that.
It's because we all so badly want approval FROM WHOM WE PERCEIVE AS OUR TRUE EQUAL!!! A real life soulmate! It's what justifies our souls that they're not alone and there is a true, inherent need for our counterpart to be found, adjoined and eternally nourished! I found this in YOU!!! It's how I know this!
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